Whether she says she wants to clear her head, get some alone time, or just be. Sometimes a wife's behavior can indicate cheating, just because a guy who is flirting with her and it's the same roof as him, ask him to leave. She is a terrible feeling, so you likely want to. But I want to get hurt again, it took me nearly 8 years to get her another can of mace just in case. When your wife is cheating on you, but only after.